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Wedding thoughts

Tammy — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 04:56:03 +0000

Our wedding went by in a flash. I remember talking to my brother and sister-in-law before hand and they kept telling us that we wouldn’t remember most of the little things that were worrying me. I felt confident that if I had everything covered and in the hands of our wedding coordinator, we’d be able to happily enjoy the day.

We did enjoy the wedding, very much, but they were right, the whole thing was a blur. When Ashley, our photographer, sent me the link to our slide show and pictures online, it felt like I was really getting to see the day – all the little things and people that I’d missed. So much happens, it’s just not possible to take it all in regardless of how much planning and delegation you do. I didn’t his face as I was walking down the aisle (because I was trying not to be eaten by the lawn). I didn’t see the guys getting ready or the guests arriving, but the camera (and Ashley) did. She did an amazing job capturing beautiful images that convey the feel of the day itself and the people with whom we shared it. It’s exactly what we wanted.

Five days to go!

Tammy — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 00:36:00 +0000

Five days from now, Matt and I will be dining on our first meal as a married couple, enjoying live music, and sharing our evening with our closest friends and family. Tomorrow, we head to Colorado to spend a few days pre-wedding with my family. Thursday night, his family and most of the wedding party hit town (and we head out to our bachelor/bachelorette ridiculousness at Casa Bonita. Yes, we’re that insane). Then on Friday, things really get into full swing – rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, post-rehearsal dinner festivities at Waterloo. On Saturday, we’re getting married (hopefully there will be a bridge by that time)!

As you can see, we’ve got a busy and exciting week ahead. Expect some silence around these parts. I’ll try to update with a few pics from Alaska while we’re on the honeymoon!

Missing Bridge Redux

Tammy — Fri, 11 Jun 2010 15:06:21 +0000

Over the few days, staff at the Red Lion (our wedding venue) have been a bit overwhelmed. Given the sudden absence of the primary (and only legal) entrance to their property, it isn’t terribly surprising. However, plenty of individuals have taken the opportunity to help out and provide unexpected generosity and kindness.

As I’ve posted elsewhere, the brides for this weekend have had to relocate and the Red Lion stands to lost $30,000 in business from lost weddings alone. Of course, bridezilla comes to mind when sudden last minute changes in wedding plans occur, not to mention changes as sweeping as having to suddenly relocate your wedding. 9News.com and Colorado Daily have covered some of the gracious (and profoundly unlucky) couples impacted by the washed away bridge. What the Colorado Daily article doesn’t mention is the graciousness and generosity that both the Red Lion and the couples are experiencing. Wedding planners, venues, and customers pulling together to relocate weddings, help pay for the bridge, and get the bridge rebuilt.

When I spoke to Tina the day after the bridge went kablooey, she was stressed and overwhelmed, but she had a plan to make the weekend weddings happen. While ultimately she was not permitted to use the back road to shuttle people in for the weddings, she was committing to making sure those couples still had the weddings of their dreams (despite Mother Nature’s contribution). Like other brides, I called to check in and ask to be kept in the loop on developments. I also offered up the idea of a temporary bridge and told her I would happily pay my part. From Tina’s comments in the article, I have a feeling that other brides also offered up support and optimism.

A washed out bridge is an act of God. Finding ways to express kindness, support, graciousness, and generosity in the aftermath is the essence of humanity. It’s life-affirming to see how people have truly risen to the occasion, just like the swollen waters of Boulder Creek that caused it all to happen in the first place.

Honey, there’s no bridge

Tammy — Wed, 09 Jun 2010 13:33:16 +0000

Now that I’m not laughing hysterically and have had a night of sleep, let’s talk about the current wedding venue situation. Red Lion Restaurant sits right beside Boulder Creek. As I mentioned in my previous post, the bridge connecting the property to the highway was washed out. The unseasonably warm temperatures and subsequent rapid snow melt caused the creek to swell. When the bridge collapsed, the rubble blocked the creek to the point that a Flash Flood warning went out. The bridge remnants are now cleared from the creek, but the giant hole in the bridge remains.

There is evidently a rather treacherous back road to the property, but Boulder Open Space & Mountain Parks has limited the unpaved (and steep) back road to residents, contractors, and emergency vehicles. So, as it stands right now, unless my wedding dress was made by Speedo or transforms into a pontoon, we may have a problem.

My immediate plan is to call the onsite wedding coordinator. I’m sure she’s overwhelmed by panicky brides at the moment. I’m not planning on panicking about the situation. There are plenty of eventualities one can accommodate, but a collapsed bridge really is not one of them. I’ve been fretting a bit that I had forgotten something, but a bridge isn’t on anyone’s wedding prep list.

Now, I’m going to go to work, wait until Colorado business hours begin, and call a very overwhelmed wedding coordinator.

Red Bull gives you wings, right?

Tammy — Wed, 09 Jun 2010 04:39:09 +0000

I’m going to need some wings since THERE’S NO LONGER A BRIDGE TO OUR WEDDING VENUE. *headdesk*

There is not supposed to be a giant hole in the bridge. Bridge does not equal donut.

Somehow, I don’t think the problem will be solved in less than 11 days.

Just a few things left to do

Tammy — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 01:40:04 +0000

We’ve gotten nearly everything wrapped up for the wedding and hopefully, we’re done bleeding money for awhile. Oof.

Wedding dress picked up. This is a story in and of itself and I’ll post about it later. Suffice it to say that I would NEVER recommend getting alterations at The Wedding Shoppe in St Paul, MN. Their service for choosing and purchasing a dress, in my experience, was excellent, but the alteration process was less than optimal (and not just for me). I’ll share more of that story later.
Attendant’s gifts ordered.
Bridesmaids’ Jewelry – I wasn’t planning on buying jewelry for the bridesmaids originally, but decided that it would be a nice gift and take one more thing off of their plates. I stalked 1928 Jewelry for a few weeks and ended up finding some very pretty navy blue pieces on sale from the Blue Moon set. I also bought a faux pearl and crystal bracelet and earrings to wear with my wedding dress.
Card Box – Similar to the guest book, I just wasn’t sold with the easily available options and had postponed getting anything until I stumbled on a Wedding Card Birdhouse on etsy. It’s personalized and comes with one roof for the wedding (with a hole for cards) and another lid for the birds! Extremely cute and clever. I’m excited about it.
Discovered we don’t need a full kids’ table – only 4 kids attending.
Plane tickets to wedding purchased.
Going Away Dress – Purchased yesterday. We’ll need to leave our hotel pretty early the next day so I decided it would be significantly easier to have the wedding dress already under control. Since we were already at Bloomingdale’s* on a registry-related task, I checked out their plus-size selection. I found a lovely Jones New York Collection dress in our wedding colors – white with navy flowers with apple green leaves and centers. It seemed quite appropriate and it looked great with a fairly reasonable price tag (read as “on sale”). I’ll wear it with a cute pair of white sandals and then repurpose both of them for one of the dinners on our honeymoon.
Guest Book – I didn’t want a typical guest book, but still wanted to have a place for people to leave their names, thoughts, and hopefully, email addresses. I looked at the recipe card style boxes but it didn’t make sense to me beyond the day of the wedding. It would just be a dust magnet. Despite my leanings otherwise, I ended up going with a book as it made more sense in terms of keeping it. I found a lovely handmade one on etsy. It’s personalized with our names on the cover.
Matt’s ring picked up.
Turned in final paperwork for venue with best guess guest count.
Made final arrangements with vendors and altered orders based on the guest count.
Thank you notes! (Hooray for Matt writing them!) The list is ever increasing and he’s keeping up pretty well.

Now we need to pack for a week for pre-wedding, the wedding, and a week of honeymoon, as well as making sure the apartment is in a reasonable state. Somewhere in there, we need to spend quality time with the cat. Regardless of how much quality time we get in, he’s still going to make us pay when we return. I have no doubt in my mind.

Really, that’s the bulk of it. We need to finish our pre-cruise registration bits and print off or boarding passes and luggage tags, but hopefully, that’s by far the most complicated thing we have left to do. I’m really, really looking forward to the honeymoon, if for no reason other than we can both get some much needed rest.

*Just as an aside, prior to our setting up our registry, I’d never shopped at Bloomingdale’s but their customer service throughout our wedding planning have definitely won my business. They are one of the few registries that has a built in Thank You manager, as well as excellent service in person, including useful (and very few) phone calls (as opposed to annoyances).

Bloomingdale’s called

Tammy — Fri, 04 Jun 2010 04:15:30 +0000

I had a message from Bloomingdale’s to let me know that our dishes and towels were on sale. It felt extremely surreal. I’m definitely not complaining about having our registry items on sale just prior to the wedding. Sales are never a bad thing. It was more of an unexpected personal touch. I appreciate it.

Update on the Adwords Experiment

Tammy — Wed, 26 May 2010 11:59:10 +0000

As of this morning, my little experiment has cost me a sum total of $.05 for one click through after nearly 600 impressions. Not too bad. The click through was someone searching on my Dad’s more renowned name twin. Hope it was my Dad! Hah!

Google Adwords for a wedding website? Why not?

Tammy — Wed, 26 May 2010 01:11:17 +0000

When I created our wedding website, I thought keeping it relatively low profile was best. Since I’m neck deep in the internet most days, it never occurred to me that someone would quickly forget or not bookmark the wedding website while also misplacing both pieces of mail containing the url. For ease of use, I should have created a subdomain. It would be relatively easy to remember, as opposed to ymmat.com/mattandtammy.

Well, of course, more than a few relatives have lost the url and I noticed in my blog analytics that people were landing on the blog in search of the wedding website. When I first noticed it, I decided cranking the SEO on the wedding site would be a good idea, but there are enough other Matt and Tammy weddings that it’s still more or less absent from search results. So, I had the bright idea of using Google Adwords. If I can’t help our guests out one way, why not try another?

The ad, as you can see is very simple. Our names, the date, and the website url. The url is unique enough that people will hopefully notice. Besides, how often do you see an ad for a wedding?

As far as keywords, I used our names, the name of our site: ‘Matt and Tammy’s Wedding,’ as well as ‘Tammy and Matt’s wedding.’ Additionally, I used a few permutations of my domain with various wedding-related words and our parents names. When Dad vanity Googles himself, he’ll definitely be surprised!

I placed the ads in search results only with a cap of $5 per day for a run up until the day of the wedding. Obviously, I’ll keep an eye on it and move my daily cap as needed. I’m doubtful we’ll ever come anywhere close to our $5, but it seemed like a good place to start. I’ll be curious to see if anyone clicks through. Even if they don’t, I know when people do come looking, our site will now show up in the results.

Things Left to Do – the Wedding version

Tammy — Sat, 22 May 2010 21:35:01 +0000

For purpose of keeping myself organized, might as well put this out there:

Make tissue pomanders to hang along the aisle.
Do program.
Order guestbook. (Woo, done!)
Buy one-way tickets to wedding (after next paycheck).
Pick up Matt’s ring, whenever it’s ready.
Attendant’s gifts
Kid’s table plan
Final paperwork for venue
Signage